Things I write down
so I don't forget them.
A collection of journals, reflections, and notes on family, work, and trying to live a little more deliberately. Written primarily for myself, to remember, reflect, and make sense of things along the way.
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The Day We Finally Got Our House Keys
A long wait, countless decisions, paperwork, payments and construction updates finally led to one simple moment: the keys were in our hands. What started as a property purchase is slowly becoming something much more meaningful, our home.
Ten Days Before the Keys
I came to Mumbai in December 2019 with four pairs of clothes. A few months later, lockdown left me stuck in a COVID hotspot, spending nights awake in the heat because there was no AC. Now, five years later, I’m ten days away from getting the keys to my own home.
Wispr Flow, Can it Supercharge my Thinking Process?
In recent days, I have noticed something strange about my behavior when I am writing something versus when I am speaking something.
Flow State is My Real Enemy
When I am working on something I am interested in, I often go into a flow state where time becomes irrelevant for
Spending the weekend in Fixing the bugs that never existed
We all get 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. But we all spend our time differently. And that defines
Years to Build, Seconds to Break
It takes years to build a relationship, but only seconds of anger to damage it. In moments of rage, people often say things they don’t truly mean, leaving wounds that can last far longer than the argument itself.
Bought my first ever iPhone Pro Models
Why I bought my first iPhone Pro Max after 10 years of using iPhones, and the two behavioural changes that matter more than the device itself.
Testing Out My Custom Blogging Setup
I am testing out custom platforms that can help me share my thoughts on the go. After spending hours on building something new, I am returning back to Ghost.
AI Turned Simple Decisions Into Mini Research Projects
A simple Google search once felt enough. Now every small choice becomes a long investigation. Somewhere along the way, curiosity turned into dependence.
Is My Note-taking System, Actually a Productivity Killer?
I was randomly going through some videos on how can I improve my note taking skills, and I saw a video on
Minimizing My Digital Footprint
Reducing digital footprint in an era where everyone runs after internet cash sounds foolish, but here is why I am pretty much ok with it.
Choosing Silence When No One Asked
Learning not to jump into every discussion is harder than it sounds, but it is teaching me where my energy truly belongs.
Bringing Out My Own Voice Instead of Chasing Vitality
I want to stop posting for the algorithm, and start posting based on things I have to share with the world.
Am I Writing for Myself or for the Algorithm?
I started writing because I loved it. But slowly, likes and shares became my compass.
Why You Need to Build Your Online Presence on Your Own Platform
Build on your own platform, not rented ones. Algorithms control visibility, reach, and influence. Own your space. Control your message.
You Don't Really Need A Plan
Waiting for the perfect moment often leads to inaction. True progress begins when you take the first step, even without a detailed plan.
Why a Different Blog When I Already Have One?
Starting a new blog to separate personal from professional work, gain clarity, and explore new ideas freely.
Becoming a Father and Positive Changes
Fatherhood brought unexpected growth. Each day, I learn the value of patience, presence, and finding meaning in the smallest acts of love.
The Voice in My Head Saving My Wallet
Impulse control is one of the challenges I have faced through out the years. Specially when it's about spending. However, recently I am seeing a difference in my thought process.
Lovely's 29th Birthday Highlights
I have some updates around how we celebrated Lovely's birthday. This is a continuation of what we discussed in my
Celebrating My Wife's 29th Birthday
On her twenty-ninth birthday, I reflect on my wife’s unwavering love and support throughout our journey together.
Comfort Over a Brand Name
Exploring how brand choices evolve with age. Shifting from flashy labels to products that offer real comfort, quality, and long-term value.
I Wish Time Had a Pause Button
From the anxious days of pregnancy to the joyful chaos of parenthood, time has shifted gears. I wanted to fast forward back then. Now, I just want to slow everything down and hold on to every moment.
People I Admire and Look to for Advice
Growth flourishes through connections. These are my mentors who offer guidance, strength, and clarity in life's chaos.
Morning Routine for Productivity: How I Bought Back My Day
Start your day with intention, not notifications. Build a simple morning routine that fuels clarity, focus, and long-term productivity.
What Gives Me Direction in Life? It’s Simpler Than You Think
Direction isn’t something you find. It’s something you build—through purpose, pain, people, and showing up every day.
Turned 33 Today: It’s Just Me, A Little Wiser, A Lot More Grateful
Turning 33 feels meaningful, marked by reflection and growth, with a focus on peace, relationships, and authenticity over societal expectations. Keep growing.
The One Quote That Transformed My Perspective on Success
I live by this timeless Bhagavad Gita quote: focus on effort, not outcomes. Discover how it brought clarity, peace, and purpose to everyday life.
When Do I Feel Most Productive?
True productivity thrives in honesty and self-awareness, not rigid routines; it flourishes when we embrace our unique rhythms and realities.
The Risk I Took That I’ll Never Regret
I left my government contractor job in 2019 for something uncertain. Everyone called it a mistake. But it turned out to be the best decision I’ve ever made. Here's why.
When Taking Action Did More Harm Than Good
Taking action isn't always beneficial; sometimes stepping back and allowing situations to unfold is the wiser, stronger choice.
Lovely, My Constant in the Chaos
Lovely quietly transformed my life through unwavering support and love during challenging times.
What is the Last Thing I have Learnt
AI is shaping the future, but journaling keeps me grounded. Balancing innovation with reflection helps me stay focused and keep growing.
When Busyness Becomes a Trap: Why I Can’t Sleep Early
Exploring the endless loop of busyness, sleepless nights, and the search for balance. A personal reflection on productivity and finding real rest.
Outgrowing Hobbies: Letting Go and Moving Forward
Childhood passions evolve as we grow, but nostalgia remains. Embrace change; it leads to new adventures and cherished memories anew.
The Truth About Why We Don’t Celebrate Valentine’s Week
Love doesn’t need a calendar! I skip Valentine’s Week and celebrate real love on Feb 26—the day Lovely said yes & we learned about Anika’s arrival.
The Internet: The Most Important Invention in My Lifetime
The internet is the most transformative invention, reshaping communication, work, education, shopping, and entertainment, despite its challenges.
Growing Up Through Unexpected Life Changes
Life’s challenges shape us. When my dad fell ill, I grew from a carefree kid to a responsible adult, learning the value of family, strength, and resilience.
How I Stay Productive: Tips for Task Completion
We all have our own way of handling tasks. For me, I don’t like to leave anything hanging. If there’s
The Journey with My First Computer: Learning, Failing, and Thriving
My first computer taught me through failures and successes, shaping my tech skills and confidence. A journey of learning, persistence, and growth!
What It Would Take for Me to Overcome My Fear of Dogs
Fear of dogs stems from a childhood trauma. Understanding and gradual exposure may help overcome this irrational fear, transforming perception.
Everyday Struggles I Despise, And How I Crush Them Now
I beat my Everyday Struggles with proven hacks. Learn how to simplify routines, reduce stress, and reclaim your day now!
The Power of Small Family Traditions: Big Love, Big Memories
Explore the power of small family traditions that create big love and lasting memories, strengthening bonds and celebrating meaningful moments.
How I Find Fun in Everyday Life
Life’s simple pleasures, like music, binge-watching, tech adventures, writing, and family moments, offer essential joy and balance. Embracing these activities helps nurture our well-being amidst daily chaos.
What I’ve Learned from My Mistakes
Mistakes are often seen as burdens, but they can provide valuable lessons in life. The author reflects on personal experiences, learning about selecting battles wisely, the cost of impatience, valuing relationships, collaboration, forgiveness, and embracing risk-taking.
How Everyday Moments Create Lasting Love
Love often resides in small acts of kindness and everyday sacrifices, illustrating deep emotional connections and mutual support in relationships.
How This Incident Turned Me from a Carefree Kid into a Responsible Adult
Life’s challenges shape us. When my dad fell ill, I grew from a carefree kid to a responsible adult, learning the value of family, strength, and resilience.
The Process of Choosing Discomfort Over Regret in Life Decisions
Life’s big decisions often come down to choosing discomfort or regret. In this post, I explore why stepping out of your comfort zone now—whether in career, growth, or relationships—can save you from a lifetime of regret and lead to long-term fulfillment.
Which Topics Would I Like to Be More Informed About
Ever feel like there's so much more to learn, but not enough time? In this post, I dive into the topics I want to explore deeper, from tech trends to personal growth, and why staying curious is key to growth.
30 Things That Make Me Happy
Happiness can be found in the little things, and in this post, I share 30 moments, activities, and experiences that never fail to bring a smile to my face.
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